You got that out your system now, JC?
I read your account of strange happenings earlier and was quite fascinated. What happened with your Da's mark must have been mystifying.
aaaaahhhh, Shammie......normality..... the natural order is slowly being restored.
P.S.
I've never had my dad's calming presence, at least not since I became an electrician!
My father had a few businesses in Dundee way back and though he was quite young and the oldest of an eventual 14 children, he was also assisted by his younger siblings running these businesses.
His wife by one year was about a month from giving birth to a daughter and what was to be their first and only child, whilst she remained at home and stayed not far from the shop.
What happened next has been recounted, versed and told to many thousands of people from Italy, Ireland, England, Scotland, Australia and the USA since that time.
Even on their deathbeds they still continued to state it exactly as they saw it until the last of them died four years ago.... so vivid an occurrence it was for them.
I was very lucky, enough to talk to every one of them that saw it happen, 13 in total in the early seventies and before any of the original witnesses passed away.
I feel so sorry now for the way I behaved and reacted with the line of questioning I took at that time, especially when it got back to my father. It was as if I was testing them and pushing them to tell me it was all a lie, all a connivance and was all made up.
My father's face said so much to me but was completely silent when he found out that I was constantly asking and harping on about it to my uncles and aunties, trying to catch them out.
He said to me almost in a whisper, I don't mind if you don't believe me and what took place, nor believe them, but now you are embarrassing me, because they are wondering what kind of son I've got. I thoroughly disappointed him, and likely he never got over that.
At that time I had a very close Rangers supporting friend Drew, who told me himself to stop trying to prove them all wrong. I can still hear Drew say "they can't ALL be wrong, can they"?
(Drew died a few years later as a result of a football riot with Rangers fans at Dens Park, after a long period of intense treatment and hospitalisation).
I thought it was strange how my father's brothers and sisters told what they saw to all and sundry when he died, but he told us not to tell anyone, and although it is an unbelievable account there was no reason whatsoever for him or them to lie, or embellish it further.
The actual event was implausible and preposterous enough to any sane and normal person but when so many witnessed it at the same time, repeatedly relaying it to others without straying or faltering from its original version, then there had to be an element of truth and wonderment to it.
However, his badly 'burned' hand was something no-one could ever argue with and always knew it to be all the proof he and they, ever needed.
I will tell this, exactly as it has been told to me and over 2 hundred times since, by the original witnesses.
Apologies for it's length, but I think brevity would have robbed the contents of its poignancy.
One morning in May 1938, about 9: 15, my father had not long left his wife to go and prepare the 'runners' for work at one of his shops, when within a few minutes of arriving, suddenly his left hand lit up like a lamp. (bulb) !!
He screamed with the intense brightness of it, as did his brothers and sisters who stood with him in a small backroom, in less than an average sized 4m x 4m living room, while about to discuss the day's work.
As they all watched, they noticed that the brightness intensified further for four or five seconds and was so bright none of them could look straight at it. His youngest sister Adele, was only 9 at the time but ran through to the toilet to get a carton of cold water, quickly followed by my dad, where she threw the water over his hand. Nothing happened with the water and the brightness stayed exactly the same. My father was in shock but is convinced he thought he heard someone say to him to go home.
(I have to say, that my father never drank alcohol or smoked cigars nor cigarettes).
At that point, no-one that was there were saying anything making sense, except screaming, (8 in total) which brought others in from next door's (Mathews) butcher's shop (another 5 people) to also witness the intense bright light coming from his hand and the ensuing madness, but my father ran off the few hundred yards to his home. He got to the side door which was closest to him kicked it and rushed inside.
It was at this exact time, his hand just as quickly extinguished its brightness and I'll quote him when he said to me "it was if I had switched it off" yet never did and couldn't do so.
He quickly went through to the living room to see his wife where he'd left her less than thirty minutes ago, but she wasn't there, and was in the bedroom. He turned around and went back the way and into the bedroom.
What he saw then dropped him onto the square little rug at the bedside as if he had been shot. His wife was lying on the bed in a huge pool of blood with a baby half born and seemingly lifeless.
There was no sound at all in the room.
Teresa, his wife at 21 was breathing in small gasps and dying very quickly. He cradled her then saw a slight movement below and then tried to pull the baby out. It was tiny and would have fitted into his cupped hands. Then his brothers and sisters came rushing in towards my dad when he started telling them what to do. They got towels, hot water and soaps to try and deliver the baby themselves, which they did and successfully. His youngest sister and next youngest brother to him, ran to the "Tardis" police box at the top of Provost Road and Clepington Road, where they got a policeman to drive around the corner and take them to the DRI......but the copper went to Maryfield hospital instead, thinking it was quicker.
It was probably equally about a mile each way to either hospital with little or no traffic at that time. They wrapped the baby up and handed it over to nurses who managed to keep it alive. My dad stayed with his wife at her bedside talking and whispering to her that the doctor and ambulance were coming very shortly.
But it was too late for her and she passed away in his arms. The doctor and nurses arrived a few minutes after that and declared her dead. The blood loss was too great for her to recover from. I never did find out what caused this traumatic event to happen in such a short time between him leaving her, the next half hour, and his rapid return.
The baby survived, was called Silvia and she is still alive, staying in the same place in Italy today as my mother came from. (living in a beautiful city in Tuscany called Pontremoli....meaning 'Three Bridges') Silvia will be 81 years old this May.
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